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Secular Vows

Humanist promises grounded in reason and compassion

Ethical Commitment

I commit to loving you with integrity, supporting your personal growth, and working together to live ethically and contribute positively to our community and world.

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Humanist Promise

I promise to stand by you as we create meaning together through our shared values, compassion, and commitment to making the world a better place for ourselves and others.

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Rational Love

I promise to love you thoughtfully and intentionally, to communicate openly, and to build our relationship on trust, empathy, and shared commitment to truth and justice.

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Our love is grounded in choice, not obligation. I freely choose to share my life with you, to celebrate our humanity together, and to face life's challenges with courage.

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I choose you as my life companion, promising to honor our bond through reason, kindness, and mutual respect, building our relationship on the foundation of human dignity.

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Together we will create our own traditions, find joy in simple moments, and support each other's journey toward becoming the best versions of ourselves.

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